Divorce in Brazil has been changing its profile. In recent years, the rate of separations among people aged 50 and older has significantly increased, a phenomenon known as 'gray divorce.' Data from IBGE indicates that about 30% of recent divorces involved people in this age group, a jump from less than 10% recorded in 2010.
According to psychologist and psychoanalyst Mariana Weigert de Azevedo, this increase is not surprising. "With greater longevity, people start to better evaluate their relationships. Marriage is no longer seen merely as an obligation and becomes a space where emotional satisfaction takes center stage," says Mariana.
Another contributing factor is women's financial independence. "Women with economic stability and adult children have more freedom to make decisions that promote their well-being, including separating. This does not mean failure, but courage to seek a more authentic life," explains the specialist.
The pursuit of personal fulfillment also drives divorce at this stage. According to Mariana, "after decades of marriage, many people realize that dreams and projects have been postponed. Divorce can represent the chance to reconnect with themselves, invest in self-knowledge, and explore new paths."
The change in social values is also relevant. Divorce has ceased to be a taboo and is now seen as a legitimate alternative for unhappy marriages. "Today, separating is not a stigma; it is a decision that seeks to preserve emotional health and respect for one's own limits," emphasizes Mariana.
Despite the potential for new beginnings, gray divorce requires careful legal and financial planning, including asset division, alimony, and succession. "It is a moment that demands attention and support, but it can also be transformative if experienced with awareness and responsibility," concludes Mariana Weigert de Azevedo.
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